Adoption has always been a part of our story. Even when we were just dating, God laid on our hearts a desire to adopt a child. Little did we know He was laying the foundation for His will for our lives as parents.
Our first pregnancy occurred in July 2011. When it ended in September to a devastating miscarriage, we thought back to our desire to adopt and made plans to begin foster parent classes. Just a month or so later, we learned through our church family about a precious seven year old named Makinzy. Via independent adoption, Makinzy became ours on November 9, 2011. We had full legal custody by Christmas and her adoption as a Wilson was finalized months later. Throughout this time, we continued to get pregnant and suffer miscarriages. We sought the best medical care and visited the best specialists, but no one could quite figure out the cause. After loosing another son, our 6th miscarriage, in October 2015, we were told our only option was through a gestational carrier, but even that would carry risks. The costs were similar, if not more, than adoption. Our next steps became clear. DNA does not determine family. Anyone could watch Makinzy snuggle in her mama's arms or giggle with her daddy and see that love makes a family.
And so, we began our second adoption in January 2016. By July, we were a waiting family. We waited for months and months and months. In March 2017, we learned about a baby expected to be born with a severe heart condition and said that we would be willing to adopt her if the birth family chose us. In May, we found out that they did! Then, on June 20, 2017, we welcomed Mira into our family. Mira's heart condition is very serious and scary, and she will need special medical care for her entire life.
Mira's adoption, not including an medical bills, costs $25,000 - $30,000. Adopting is expensive due to the costs of meeting the needs of women in crisis pregnancies. Adoption is about more than just adding a beautiful baby to our family; it's about providing a Christ-like love to people. We believe that adoption reflects the gospel and that all Christians are called to consider, pray for, and support adoption. We thank you from the bottom of our heart for your financial support and for your prayers to defend and love the brokenhearted.
Jake and Briana
If you'd like to know more about our journey, including Mak's adoption, our struggles with grief and loss during the six miscarriages, dealing with anger and sadness, finding identity, and all that we've been through on a more personal level, you can read Briana's personal blog at www.shinefromtheinside.blogspot.com.